It's not always about what you love. Sometimes it's about what you can tolerate...if it's a detail that someone else (your fiance, mom, grandma, etc.) thinks is super important. Or sometimes it's about simply what you don't hate, or something you like but that's all. Because the odds that you are going to absolutley LOVE every detail of your big day are slim to none. Love is a strong and important word and there's no way I'm going to feel that much emotion about everything for our big day. Some things?- no doubt, all things?-No way.
This idea is freeing for me. Because I don't have to love everything. Our goal is to love the whole day with the people we love.
One of my very good friends who got married last year gave me some sound advice when she said to plan everything you can as well as you can and when the day arrives just go with it. Don't stress out or worry about little things because your guests won't realize that that small thing is missing or placed wrong. Trust that you did the best job you could and that it'll all be great. Just enjoy your day for everything it is.
That is our goal. Celebrate our love with everyone we love.
And I can not wait!
-Bride
YAAAAY! Welcome back to blogging and congrats on your engagement!!!!! So excited to see how your plans unfold! :) :)
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